MY SON ! I SUGGEST YOU STAY SINGLE .

 

Because you love you care.  Because you care , you are jealious. Because  you 

are jealous , you are unsatisfied . because you are unsatisfied , you hate . 

because you hate , you quarrel . because you quarrel . because you are hurt , 

you are suffering , then kill or be killed in the end .

My son! I suggest you stay single, that is the only way to be “phramana” ?

Phramana has four face . face one “metta “ the state of mind –you love 

everyone and want them to be happy .

Face two “karuna” that is compassion  -you want to help everyone to be free 

from suffering . face three “ mudita”  you are happy when you see someone 

succeed in his life , no jealousy. Face four “upekkha” you are stable and calm 

when you cannot help him.

“phramana” is the one who sees and knows suffering danger, decay, terror,  

 peacekessness,  insufficiency, quarrelling , hurting , destroying , gossiping, and couple being killed .

Being a couple , when there’s no responsibility , there’s suffering –both body 

and mind .you’ll divorce, quarrel, kill or be killed . because of this I stay single , 

I am free from all those evils .

Being “phramana “-change from normal person to be a monk, wearing yellow 

robe , doing good deeds , meditate until reaching the state of enlightenment. 

“phramana” is free from lust , anger hatred ,boredom,selfishness and uncertainaty.

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phramana” possess initial application , discussing in meditation .from doing 

good deeds, he is happy , and the emptiness occupies his mind .

The happiness of “ phramana” is

Does not look after anybody except himself. Does not quarrel, care of anybody 

. does quarrel , scold and gossip anybody. Does not do good or bad things for 

anyone . does not repeat any deeds . is not afraid of making anyone sorry , 

annoyed. Is not patient when you are by yourself . is not jealous. No thought 

for good or bad children. This is the happy life ! come on ! stay single ! and be “ pramana”!

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